Day 8 - SUnday Oct 10
I am finally with my host family in Jorco de Vuelta. which is also in the mountains outside of San Jose. It was very intimidating being thrown into a world and family that speaks absolutely no English. But it turns out they are wonderful wonderful people. I live with the "Mami" of a big family. She has 7 kids and multiple grandchildren. Only her youngest daughter, Julissa, lives here now. But three of her daughters live next door, and one of her sons lives in town. I am the "aunt" of some great kids, including the cutest little 3 year old, Zach, who lives next door, and an eleven year old Maria who is turning into one of my best friends! ANother Peavce Corps volunteer lives two houses down and is in my family. TOday me, AUdrey (the Peace Corps volunteer) and my little "sabrina" Maria went for a long walk ad ended up swimming in the river with our clothes on in the most beautiful setting ever. We were surrounded by mountains, trees, coffee plants and many animals.
It has been rough but we still manage to joke and have some great times. I have realized my spanish is a little better than I thought because at least I can communicate and get by. This is the first time in my life that I have been studying on my free time, because I want to communicate. I can not wait until I can talk more with my family and learn more about them. SO far I have learned that my mom has seven kids and her husband died of head cancer :( which breaks my heart because my Mami, Raxana is the sweetest person ever. You can tell that she holds the whole family together. It was great waking up this morning to a house full of people laughing and enjoying each other. It is so crazy, the children drink coffee starting at like 4 years old here!! Another cultural difference. Everyone has welcomed me with a smile, and is so patient and great with me. And who doesn't love a place that eats tortillas and avocados for breakfast….soooo good.
I thought it would be hard adjusting to the food but the food has been great so far. In fact I had pasta with meet and tomorotoe sauce for lunch The one thing that I will definitely have to get use to is the bathroom situation. The shower is just a pipe that you turn on and off and only has freezing cold water. It then drains out of a hole on the side of the wall that goes directly outside. Also there is many places in the house that are open to the outside, including part of the bathroom.In some places there is just a rufe and the walls don't go up all the way, like in the kitchen. You can also see the ground through the floor in different parts of the house.The people hear are so similar to us, but live in such a different way!
We went to church tonight, and it was so interesting seeing the real culture of another place. ANd here, religion is a big part of the culture. In fact, Maria is an alter girl. You will see that when you walk into my house and see multiple pictures of Jesus and the first supper and other catholic memorabelia. THe catholic church in Jorco is modest yet still beautiful, it has a ceiling that is covered in stars and a few stained glass windows. It was similar to church in the U.S. but some of the main differences were that there is no bibles, hymn books, or handout in the pews and the chorus consists of only men and guitars. THe church is in the main part of town which has a bar and about a few different shops. Meaning I am just a 5 minute walk to the local bar, oh and church :)
After church the girls bought me an ice cream cone and we sat in the center park/hang out area and joked around. The town was alive with people at this time. This is when there is social hour, right after 6 o'clock mass. It was hilarious joking around and seeing the bad words the girls know in spanish, they say its from the "peliculas". Actually, my 16 year old sister just came in my room and I showed her all the funny phrases in my costa Rican spanish book that Kendra gave me. There is a whole section on relationships and sex and she was cracking up…my favorite was "suave tiger" or easy tiger. It is just so amazing how much you can communicate with someone when you don't really speak their language. I have never been so excited for class, I just want to learn more spanish! I have been spending a good amount of time studying important words and phrases and just want to know more. Just as I said, I am a communicator, and I will figure it out so I can talk to my family!!
Pura Vida!
Michaela
p.s. sorry about everything misspelled the spell check is only in spanish...